Surprise from brother

Got a text message from my brother tonight. He said 'No matter I love you even though I don't agree with it'. Ok, I have to say that I was shocked by this. I don't think either one of us has ever said that to each other. I guess that is why I feel better that maybe one day he will accept that I am gay and be ok with it. Stayed tuned.

The Great Nationwide Kiss-In

This video was part of The Great Nationwide Kiss-In (a campaign organized by David Badash, David Mailloux and Willow Witte) has gone viral, spreading to more than 25 cities and more than 1,200 members on Facebook. The campaign is simple: in response to a recent wave of incidents where police or law enforcement officers harassed or arrested LGBT people for kissing, folks are coming together across the country with their loved ones, friends, etc., to show that kissing is not illegal. Rather, it's an expression of love and affection that never merits criminalization.

The group has launched a video today that shows just how powerful a simple kiss can be. Straight, gay, black, white, young, old...it doesn't matter. The Great Nationwide Kiss-In group's Facebook page can be found here.

Brother's response

Monday September 14, 2009 @ 8:10 PM


Got a call from my brother as i was leaving the QL. He informed me that he heard something about me. I said, really! And what exactly is that? Lawrd, i knew this was coming, but still wasn't ready for it. He asked me why. Why i would choose to be 'GAY'. I said, first of all it's not a choice! And second, why would somebody choose to be gay! He was acting all holier than though, like he is this big christian or something. I am so tired of the southern Baptist/Methiodist beliefs. He asked when I chose to be gay. LOL!!! That's so freaking funny!!! Like I just decided one day. He thinks that friends talked me into it. I said, I was gay long before I hung out with any gay people. I mean, I've known since early childhood that I had an attraction to the same sex, didn't really accept it until adulthood. He informed me not to tell mamma and daddy. It would kill em. I mean, why the fuck you think I haven't told them yet!!!! But, I do think it's something they should know. I would hate for them to find out from someone else. He told me not to be mad with the sis-in-law, which at the time, I said I wasn't. But the more I have thought about and talked with my boyfriend, I have become more angry with her for not letting me decide when the right time was to tell him. Now I just have to decide when the right time is to tell the parents. I am so lucky to have someone to talk to and be with and support me. Thanks Aaron, I love you!

Heyyyyyyyy!!!!!

Came out to three more people today at work. Went well, got an unexpected response from the guy. Kinda expected him to be all homophobic, but he was fine with it. feels good to open with friends.

Family 'Outing'

Friday September 11, 2009 @ 8:12 PM

Ok, where do I start. I have been inspired to start blogging again because of a recent coming out of sorts with a family member. I have struggled with the whole coming out to the family for years now, but I have recently become apathetic to other peoples reactions or beliefs.

My sister-in-law was looking at recent photos posted to Facebook noticed my profile pic. She says it was the profile pic, but I think it was the pic of me licking my boyfriend in the face. She questioned me regarding my profile pic, which is me and my boyfriend, and asked me "who the guy was in my profile pic", then immediately said "take that back, maybe i don't want to know" which i promptly replied, "you probably don't".


A few minuted later she said, "so when are you going to tell you family before someone else who may have a FB account does? I've been holding back tears for an hour." I said "What are the tears for? That's what I've been fighting for years." She responded, "You know my opinion and I'm sorry I can't support you on this. I love you and have always felt close to you but now- I don't know what to say."

My resonse was, "And that's why I have never said anything. Y'all don't understand, and unfortunately, probably never will! I am the same person I have always been! Just so you know, I did not choose this, God made me this way! I LOVE you, despite how u feel and always will!" Which she responded by saying, "Keep reassuring yourself of that. You know I don't believe God made u that way. That is why I'm having such a hard time."

I asked, "Did u choose to be who u r?" She said that, "I am not going to debate with u on the issue b/c we will never agree. I just want to know if you are ever going to tell your parents and your brother."


I just can't believe how close-minded she is. Typical Southern Bapist behavior. Not sure what to do at this point. I think she will definitely tell my brother.

Birthday Hotties

Larry Wayne "Chipper" Jones, Jr.
(born April 24, 1972)



Thad Luckinbill (born April 24, 1975)



Eric Salter Balfour
(born April 24, 1977)

Birthday Hotties

John Cameron Mitchell (born April 21, 1963 in El Paso, Texas)
is an American writer, actor, and director. He is best known
for his motion pictures Hedwig and the Angry Inch and Shortbus.





Eric Harry Timothy Mabius (born April 22, 1971) is an
American actor. He is known for his film and television roles,
including Ugly Betty and Cruel Intentions. 




Scott Hamilton Bairstow (April 23, 1970) was born in
Steinbach, Manitoba, Canada to Douglas and Diane Bairstow,
professional classical musicians. He is an actor best known
for his roles as "Newt Call" on the Lonesome Dove series in
Canada and as "Ned Grayson" on the American television
drama series, Party of Five. In May 2003, Bairstow was
charged in Everett, Washington with second degree child rape
for allegedly having had sex with a 12-year-old girl, who is
related to Bairstow's ex-wife, and later asking her to keep quiet
about it. In December 2003, he pleaded guilty to a lesser charge --
second degree assault. Bairstow entered an Alford plea, under
which he maintained his innocence but conceded that he would
likely be convicted by a jury if the case went to trial. He was
sentenced to four months in jail, one year community supervision,
and was required to undergo a sexual deviancy evaluation. He was
also ordered to have no contact with the girl for 10 years and to pay
for any counseling she requires. He's still hot though.



Barry Watson (born April 23, 1974 in Traverse City, Michigan)
is an American actor, best known for his roles of Matt Camden
on 7th Heaven, Brian Davis in What About Brian and Todd in
Samantha Who?. Watson was diagnosed with Hodgkin's lymphoma
in May 2002, and went on hiatus from 7th Heaven while he
underwent treatment. As of April 2003, it was reportedly in
remission, and he began appearing on the program again, starting
with the 150th episode.

Weekend Birthdays

James Franco (April 19, 1978) is an American actor, director, screenwriter, film producer, and artist. He began acting during the late 1990s, appearing on the series Freaks and Geeks and starring in several teen films. He won a Golden Globe Award for playing the title role in the made-for-television film James Dean, and has become known among audiences for his role as Harry Osborn in the Spider-Man films. In 2006, Franco had a starring role in three Hollywood films, Tristan & Isolde, Annapolis and Flyboys.

Auditioned for the role of Peter Parker in SPIDER-MAN (2002), but was given the part of Harry Osbourne.

Was named one of People Magazine's 50 Hottest Bachelors. (2004)

Was paid 2,000,000 for THE COMPANY (2003).

Nickname: Ted, Teddy



Hayden Christensen (April 19, 1981) turned 27 0n Saturday. Blue eyes, blonde hair, 6' 1 1/2" hottie. I fell on love with Hayden during his critically acclaimed portrayal of a misunderstood teenager in Life as a House (2001). He earned Golden Globe and SAG Award nominations as well as the National Board of Review's award for Breakthrough Performance of the Year, the performance didn't receive widespread public notice. For his part in the movie, Christensen lost 25 pounds through a special diet. He eventually gained the weight back during the filming for Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the Sith.

His role as Anakin Skywalker (who was previously played by Sebastian Shaw and Jake Lloyd) in Star Wars Episode II: Attack of the Clones (2002) made him a star. Although his performance was met with mixed reviews by critics (even earning him the Razzie Award for Worst Supporting Actor in both Episodes II and III), he became very popular among audiences, being named in both People Magazine's 50 Most Beautiful People and Teen People's 25 Hottest Stars under 25. He went on to receive good reviews for 2003's Shattered Glass, which tells the true story of journalist Stephen Glass, who was discovered fabricating stories as a writer for The New Republic.

Competed with his sister Hejsa Christensen (the captain), brother Tove Christensen and a family friend in Eco-Challenge Fiji Islands (2003). The Eco-Challenge consists of a 500-kilometer (300 miles) race that included the tasks of hiking, swimming, kayaking and mountain biking their way through the Fiji archipelago. Only 23 out of 81 teams finished this race. Christensen was one of the youngest competitors in the race.

His London theatre co-star Jake Gyllenhaal said Hayden's armpits stank so much that after touching him, the smell remained on Jake's skin for days.

He fractured his hand during the filming of a rather violent scene in LIFE AS A HEOUSE in which his character hits a wall. Afterwards he had to go to hospital and that scene was cut out of the movie.



Joseph "Joey" Lawrence (born April 20, 1976) is an American actor. He became successful through the TV show Gimme A Break and followed that up with the TV series Blossom in the 1990s, in which he played the character Joey Russo, a dim-witted young man who frequently uttered the phrase "WHOA!" At that time he used his nickname Joey. In the wake of his acting success, he started a recording career, releasing two albums during the 1990s. In later years he went back to using his given name Joseph. Most recently he competed in the 2006 season of Dancing With the Stars competition, but was eliminated from the competition on November 9, 2006.

 I'm trying to decide if I like the bald Joey or the Joey with hair.

Another actor comes out

Luke McFarlane from Brothers & Sisters has officially come
out. He chose an interview with Canadas Globe & Mail to
end the speculation.

“Though no secret to his family and close friends, Macfarlane has,
until now, been guarded about his personal life as a gay man.
Over lunch in Los Angeles, where he lives, he initially insists
that he has no concerns about his public revelation - but a few
seconds later he is shifting nervously in his chair, and concedes
that he is ‘terrified.’ … ‘I don’t know what will happen professionally …
that is the fear, but I guess I can’t really be concerned about what
will happen, because it’s my truth.”

I commend you, Luke, for doing what a lot of us don't have the
balls to do.
 
I am sure Wentworth Miller is going crazy right about know. He and
McFarlane were rumored to be dating last June, which Miller has
vehimently denied.

Channing Tatum......

is currently filming G.I. Joe with a release date of August 7, 2009.
He is one of the  most beautiful hottest men I have ever seen. 
I am not not saying that he is the best actor's, but with a body 
like his, he doesn't have to act. Check out the package in the
2nd and 3rd pics.